What is Somatic Coaching?
The word somatics comes from the Greek root soma, which means "the living body in its wholeness." Somatic coaching is a way to
observe people holistically. It is a process in which one embodies
new practices to be able to create a body of action. It is a
unique coaching style that brings the body forward as an advocate in
creating a place for change and transformation.
Our bodies are "built" through our lifetime —
how we were raised and our association with our peers and friends
create muscles and tissues that hold these memories.
Your body is a highly intelligent "self," and by reconnecting your
body with your thinking self you create a powerful offer in the
world. Being embodied allows you to believe and trust in your
competence.
Your life experiences shape your body
The body is a three-dimensional structure —
having length, width and depth and is the shape of the self. At
birth your body is flexible malleable, open. But as you begin to
experience life, your body begins to extend, withdraw or brace
against the world. It takes on a particular shape, often out of
balance. The physical shape of your body now is the sum of your
historical experiences. Your body actually says more about you than
your words!
Being out of balance in your length, width or
depth limits your power, passion and expression. For example, people
can be pushed down by their family dynamic. "Children should be seen
and not heard, boys don’t cry, little girls don’t climb trees."
In relationship to our lives we are always
searching for affection, connection, belonging and dignity. These
are many of the elements — our psychological drives, our family
dynamics and our life experiences — that produces the “self” and our
physical shape.
For example, when under pressure do you find
yourself extending out and giving and giving to a point of
exhaustion? Do you withdraw, staying small and quiet, not calling
attention to yourself? Or do you brace against the world to protect
yourself waiting for the other shoe to drop?
Obviously, your historical shaping may not
serve you now.
Notice your body now. What is happening with and in your body? Are
your shoulders straight or slumped? Is your breathing deep or
shallow? Do you walk with confident strides or with short, small
steps? Is your neck tight or loose? Do you speak clearly and audibly
or do you mumble in a low voice?
Reshaping your body, your life
Self and body are indistinguishable, so if you
affect the body you affect the self. Somatic coaching teaches you to
become a keen observer of how you think, the stories and
narratives that run through your head, your mood and emotion, and
the sensations that are happening in your body, your self.
Somatic coaching works through the body with
customized, ongoing practices that shift the body to support you to
be the offer you want to be in the world.
Through somatic coaching we work to literally
reshape or rebuild your body by disorganizing the old shape through
conversation, bodily practices and, when possible, bodywork. This
interrupts the old pattern, and in doing this you begin to
reorganize your body (actually reshape it) so that you are then able
to create the passion and volition needed to support you being on
your purpose.
Change your body, change your life!
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